About Me
Becoming an end-of-life doula was not something I had planned. I studied Sociology in Switzerland, where I’m from. Since coming to NYC almost 30 years ago, I have worked as a researcher in Marketing and Technology. Things changed after I experienced personal loss.
Becoming a Doula
Marlene Mrakovcic
My mother’s death ten years ago was sudden. She always seemed strong and healthy, but then one day, she was rushed to the ER with a major stroke. Our family was in shock and didn't know what to do or how to speak to each other, let alone know how to help my mother in her final days. I remember sitting in the hospital corridor wishing I could talk to someone, but I didn’t want to burden my family or friends.
My dad’s death was different. He received 24/7 care at home from wonderful aides who also supported me. They answered my questions, explained everything that was happening, kept me calm and even cooked for me. This filled me with gratitude and led me to my first end-of-life doula course in 2020, provided by INELDA (International End-of-Life Doulas Association).
Since then, I’ve had additional training and I volunteer for two hospices in NYC. I see my role as complementary to what doctors, nurses, aides, therapists, and chaplains do—providing practical and human support when professionals need to move on.
Courses & Experience
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INELDA: End-of-life doula training (2020)
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INELDA: Training on Mapping Emotions (2022)
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INELDA: Course on working with individuals with Dementia (2023)
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Hospice of New York (HONY): Volunteer (since 2021)
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Visiting Nurse Service (VNS): Volunteer (since 2023)
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Bernarda Morin Foundation (Chile): Assisted Living Volunteer (November 2023)
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End of Life Choices NY: Volunteer (since 2024)
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Fluent in German and Serbo-Croatian, Intermediate Spanish
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Master’s in Sociology and History
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20+ years experience in research, deep listening, and facilitating discussions
Find a Doula for You
Choosing the right doula is a personal choice. My strengths are listening, being present, and asking clarifying questions. My curiosity and interest in others have served me well in my 25 years of research and are even more important in my doula work.
If my approach resonates with you, please reach out. I’m also connected to a network of doulas with various strengths and services. I would gladly refer you to one of my colleagues.
Contact me
If you’d like to learn more about how I can help you or a loved one, please submit an inquiry with any details you would like to share.
Please note that I live in New York City and only service the local area. If you live in another part of the country, feel free to still reach out. Once I better understand your needs after the phone consultation, I will do my best to refer you to one of my colleagues who works in your area.